A bride has shared an 'insufferable' list of rules that she wants her bridal party to follow on her big day - but critics have insisted they would rather skip the wedding. Taking to Reddit forum Wedding Shaming, one person, believed to be from the US, shared a screenshot of the bridezilla's extensive orders, which she appeared to have shared on her Instagram page.
She had listed the six requirements that she had for her bridesmaids ahead of her special day and claimed she would be sharing the list 'every day until the wedding'. The woman reminded her friends that it is 'not your day' before each of the demands and warned that if they were not 'team bride' they could instead just be a normal guest.
Racking up nearly 3,000 uplikes, the list was commented on by more than 500 people who were keen to leave their thoughts on the rules, with one person saying they would be 'team not going'. Starting off the list of demands, the bride simply wrote: 'Do what the bride asks or don't be in the wedding.'.
She again reminded her bridesmaids that it is 'not your day' before informing them that they will have no say in their hair or make-up for the day. She said: 'If the bride wants make-up or certain hair for everyone, and you don't wear makeup – don't be in the wedding.
A bride has shared an 'insufferable' list of rules that she wants her bridal party to follow on her big day - but critics have insisted they would rather skip the wedding (stock image). 'It's usually the ones who scream "I don't want all that" who ends up looking less flattering.'.
For her next rule, she explained that bridesmaids 'look jealous' when they object to things she has asked of them. She added: 'Especially things you have not paid for, be grateful or don't be in the wedding.'. Next, she reminded her bridesmaids that they are on 'team bride' and should act accordingly.
She explained: 'If you wish to act like anything less, switch to team guest. Have a seat and throw rice, preferably uncooked.'. Finally, she laid out her expectations for her bridal party when it comes to finances and told them they have a year to plan.
She said: 'It's NOT your day. If you can't afford to be in the wedding, let the bride know up front. Don't accept and then penny pinch, ESPECIALLY if it's one year or more out. Plan accordingly.'. Reddit users were shocked and appalled by the 'insufferable' list and shared their thoughts on the bride's demands in the comments.
One person quipped: 'At least she's giving everyone a daily chance to join TEAM NOT GOING.'. Another said: 'I would be on team not going just so I could not get this letter every day, 'Please unsubscribe me from this list' would be my dream response.'. Someone else added: 'She’s going to end up with no friends if she keeps this up.' A fourth added: 'Yup, definitely joining TEAM NOT GOING and going to make it MY day by doing something more interesting.'.
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