My husband is 30 years older & has a second wife who’s younger than me – I don’t mind, we all sleep in a bed together

My husband is 30 years older & has a second wife who’s younger than me – I don’t mind, we all sleep in a bed together
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My husband is 30 years older & has a second wife who’s younger than me – I don’t mind, we all sleep in a bed together
Author: Roisin Chapman
Published: Feb, 13 2025 09:46

A COMMITTED throuple have revealed their Valentine's Day plans – from an aphrodisiac meal to spooning rotations. Débora Peixoto, 31, and her husband Anderson Peixoto, 61, were happily wed for seven years before deciding to open up their marriage. After meeting 28-year-old Luiza Marcato, they decided to invite her into the fold. The trio has been together since 2023 and legally married in October 2024.

 [A man sitting on an old boat is kissed on each cheek by two women.]
Image Credit: The Sun [A man sitting on an old boat is kissed on each cheek by two women.]

This unique ceremony was then followed by a blissful honeymoon for the triad. They are now spending their first Valentine’s together after getting hitched. Keen to showcase that their relationship is no different to any other, Débora shared an insight into their day-to-day lives, including their Valentine's plans. “We have reserved an entire restaurant exclusively for ourselves,” Débora told NeedToKnow.

 [A throuple posing for a photo in front of a church.]
Image Credit: The Sun [A throuple posing for a photo in front of a church.]

“We worked with the chef directly and have created the menu to feature aphrodisiac dishes such as oysters, dark chocolate, and spices to elevate the evening. “It will make the night even more special and boost the energy between the three of us.". Débora explained that she and her partners prefer a private setting when they go out. "We prefer environments where we can be ourselves without judgment or interruptions," she said.

“Reserving a private space makes the celebration more meaningful and brings us closer.”. The trio sleep in the same bed and have their own spooning rotation. “Usually, I’m in the middle, because I like to give and receive affection at the same time, but sometimes I just want to be the little spoon – especially on colder days," said Débora, who hails from Brazil. “The great thing about being in a throuple is the flexibility, everyone gets their turn.

“We’ve also adapted to a big bed so everyone has space, but I’ll admit it’s sometimes tricky. Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties. It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple.

“One pulls the blanket, another takes up too much room. “We’ve even considered buying a custom-made, extra-large bed.". She also broke down how she and her partners approach being intimate with each other. “[Sexually speaking], I think things will happen naturally [on the day]," she explained. “Our focus is more on enjoying each other’s company than planning every detail.". Our love doesn't need to fit into a box, what matters most is the meaning behind the gift, not the price.

The trio will also exchange personalised gifts with a focus on “individuality” with a set budget of £270. "Each of us contributes to making Valentine's Day memorable, respecting individuality while celebrating the love we share," Débora said. "What matters is that everyone feels loved and valued, regardless of societal conventions. “Our love doesn't need to fit into a box, what matters most is the meaning behind the gift, not the price.

“Besides, we’ve got the special dinner together.". Despite what people may say or think, the trio love their unusual dynamic. “Some people find it amazing and say it’s inspiring to see a relationship with so much connection," Débora added. “Others don’t understand and end up criticising, but we’ve learned to ignore them. “The most important thing is that we’re happy and in love, and that’s all that matters.

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