Indeed, if you can identify the reasons why your partner might have an affair, and adapt your relationship as a result, you might well be able to avoid the pain of cheating completely.
If you know that your partner experienced a notable trauma in their youth, be aware they may turn to cheating as an adult to help shield themselves from future pain.
Such validation triggers the release of dopamine, the pleasure hormone commonly associated with addictive substances like opioids or cocaine, which also plays a powerful role in sexual dynamics, giving those who cheat a rush that temporarily fills an emotional void.
As a licensed marriage and family therapist for 20 years – best known for helping reality star Jax Taylor with his never-ending issues with women on Bravo's Vanderpump Rules – I see five broad 'infidelity triggers' crop up in my practice again and again.
The cheater may genuinely care for their partner, but their fear of intimacy creates walls that keep them disconnected.]
