Many of us have done something embarrassing at a work Christmas party, but faux pas usually only extend to an overfamiliar chat with the boss or some bad Dad dancing. This week’s Sex Column reader went a little bit further at her company’s festive celebration, with an X-rated wardrobe malfunction and a kiss with a married man.
She’s now being iced out by her colleagues, and is dreading going back to the office again in the New Year. Read the advice below, but before you go, don’t forget to check out last week’s column, from a dad-of-two who’s unsure whether to let his wife come back after she left him (and their kids) for another man.
I started my first job in the summer and was getting on really well, until I disgraced myself at the firm’s Christmas party. I’ve never been to anything like that before, and was amazed that everything was free, and the bosses were handing out drinks and nibbles while the rest of us had a great time. At first, everyone was on their best behaviour but at a certain point in the evening all the top people went home, leaving us to it.
I really love to dance and although I felt a bit shy to begin with, I soon loosened up and was giving it everything on the dance floor. I honestly don’t know how, but at some stage a few buttons came loose on my blouse, and my bra started to show. I just carried on dancing, showing my boobs to everyone, without a care in the world. In fact, it felt great, and lots of the guys were encouraging me to strip right off (I didn’t).