I was a naive nursery worker who was lured into going to a swinger's party with the middle-class couple I babysat for - what happened that night took me down a dark path that changed my life forever

A 'naive' nursery worker has described how a middle-class couple she babysat for lured her into going to a wild chemsex party that led her down a dangerous path - ultimately changed her life forever. In 2020, Katy Bampton - who grew up in North Wales - flew to Australia for her first swinging party after she was invited by the parents of a child she was babysitting. The experience marked the beginning of a five-year journey that heightened Katy's instincts for self-love - but not before she was forced her to confront the dark truth of why women might use drugs like MDMA and ecstacy during intercourse.

Along the way, Katy told FEMAIL, she hosted a swingers party attended by nearly 150 people, moved to Thailand, and decided to set up a 'School of Sensuality' to help women reconnect with their bodies while enjoying 'genuine, real sex and relationships'. 'I went to my first swinging party in 2020, just before Covid,' she recalled. 'At the time, I was a nursery worker and nanny with absolutely zero experience of anything like this.'.

The raunchy chemsex party on the Gold Coast was hosted by a couple she worked for and who 'wanted me to be the "Single Unicorn"' among their group of married friends. 'I could tell with their energy that they had an idea in mind, but I didn't know the trip would turn into an orgy with the parents of the kids I'd been babysitting,' Katy added, describing her hedonistic night out in Australia. The sex party began at around 2am when the group returned to a private apartment following a night of bar-hopping.

A 'naive' nursery worker has described how a middle-class couple she babysat for lured her into going to a wild chemsex party that led her down a dangerous path that would ultimately change her life forever. In 2020, Katy Bampton - who grew up in North Wales - flew to Australia for her first swinging party after she was invited by the parents of a child she was babysitting. The experience marked the beginning of a five-year journey that heightened Katy's instincts for self-love.

'I'd done MDMA earlier that night,' Katy said. 'We went back, put some music on, and then some of the women took their dresses off and were dancing in their lingerie. 'It didn't seem incongruous or strange, I felt it was fun, largely because I'd drunk a fair bit and done MDMA. 'There was no shame or insecurities, just happiness and love,' she continued, referring to the feelings of euphoria and warmth the drug is believed to produce.

As the night progressed, Katy felt comfortable enough to strip down to her lingerie - in part because of the stimulant and partly because she could tell that the couples were 'experienced swingers...this wasn't their first rodeo'. 'Then to add some spice,' Katy continued, 'they put MDMA on the penises of the men, little lines' that the women licked off. One thing led to another and, before long, the group had tried 'all variations possible' of sex with each other 'but they had bowls of condoms around to make sure it was all very safe'.

The next morning, Katy discovered the three married couples she had been with 'did this two times a month' before she went back home and 'straight away told my friends about the fun experience'. Over the next few months, Katy carried on babysitting for the parents but was never invited to their 'other parties' and 'I didn't ask to come'. Her experiences attending chemsex parties also forced her to confront the dark truth of why women might use drugs like MDMA and ecstacy during intercourse.

Over the years, Katy slowly began distancing herself from the chemsex parties she and her pornstar partner Rob indulged - including attending fewer events and being entirely sober when she did. She continued: 'I just fell into this, I never looked for it...I was very vanilla back then.'. Soon after, one of the women from the Gold Coast sexcapade invited Katy to her husband's birthday. 'I was the birthday "treat", which I was fine with,' Katy continued. 'I hadn't been craving it, but if it happened, I'd jump in.'.

Unlike the last time, however, no drugs were involved in what was a threesome between Katy and the couple at their house while 'the kids were in bed at the same time'. The next milestone on Katy's journey was meeting her now-former partner and famous pornstar Rob in November 2021 at a swingers' club called Chateau Vino. While she was with a group of friends, the bar was full of older men 'so I didn't feel too comfortable,' Katy shared, before revealing she was introduced to Rob after 'we all did MDMA'.

Two months into their first meeting, Katy and Rob organised a swinger's party for 140 people at an office warehouse in Brisbane. 'We'd set up the beds, with condoms and lube scattered around, we'd have drinks at the start, and take MDMA before going up to the bedrooms - with up to 10 people on a single bed.'. By the time she and Rob moved to the island of Koh Samui in Thailand in 2023, Katy decided 'I didn't want that life anymore'.