I’m happily engaged but me and my man sleep with other people – haters call us ‘scum’ but we love it, it’s so much fun

A HAPPILY engaged couple have opened up on the horrendous judgement they face on a daily basis. Gabby Lyons and her partner Courtney James, also known as CJ, are both spicy content creators from the Gold Coast, Australia. But the couple, who got engaged in Mexico and now create content together and with other couples, have faced a lot of negativity from online trolls. Whilst haters call them ‘scum’ and hail them as ‘low class’ for their actions, Gabby and CJ, who have their own online adult shop, won’t listen to the noise.

The pair recently got candid with Truly, on a YouTube episode of Love Don’t Judge, leaving many open-mouthed. Gabby, who has 97,000 followers on Instagram, shared: “I am sleeping with other people for a living. “We do have rules when it comes to work - we don’t want anything to come into play where there’s any jealousy. “We will work with females who are single, females who are in a relationship who have those boundaries with their partner, but when we’re working with male creators, we prefer to do that in a couple to couple setting.”.

When it comes to the hate the couple receive, the blonde beauty continued: “People judge our relationship because we both sleep with other people. “I do get a lot of online judgement, they’d even go so far as messaging my family on Facebook and say stuff like ‘your daughter’s a tramp’. “Some of the comments I receive are next level when it comes to bullying. I’m being told I’m ugly, I’m disgusting.

“The worst reactions are probably the loss of people who I thought were really close to me.”. However, she claimed: “I’m not worried about what people think of me.”. Meanwhile, CJ recognised that “people can't comprehend how we sleep with other people, they can't look outside the spectrum.”. Working with other people has enhanced the level of intimacy in our relationship. We have a lot of fun with it.

He also added: “I get called “small” by trolls and guys get jealous I'm with Gabby.”. But despite this, the couple claim that their adult work has “grown their relationship". By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist. Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.

Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn't always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment. Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it's always about control, it may hide insecurities. Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected. Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.

Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection. Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics. Not only this, but CJ reflected: “It’s grown our trust, it’s grown our safety and humility with each other.”. To which Gabby chimed in: “Working with other people has enhanced the level of intimacy in our relationship. We have a lot of fun with it, it just works.”.