I get stressed if I don’t have sex every single time I see my boyfriend
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Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger. This week we hear from Felicity* a 26-year-old woman living in Brooklyn, New York. Felicity is in a long-distance relationship with Tom*, who she met on Hinge two-and-a-half years ago.
The pair live a three-hour drive apart, and with conflicting work schedules, Felicity wishes they could see each other more. She says: ‘When we met we lived in the same area. I was extremely apprehensive about him moving away, fearing we’d feel unconnected and separate from each other.
‘At the time, we discussed whether we should break up, but neither of us wanted to.’. The pair are still deeply in love, and their sex life is healthy too. ‘I remember the first time we had sex after he’d moved away, I cried because I was so relieved that it felt the same, like nothing had changed,’ she says.
‘We promised we would never go longer than two weeks without seeing each other, and so far, we’ve been able to keep it up.’. Without further ado, here’s how Felicity got on this week…. The following sex diary is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.
It’s been two days since we’ve seen each other, four days since we had sex. The last sex we had was the kind that couples after two-and-a-half years dream of: long, exciting and new. We had to be quiet as we were at Tom’s parents’ house, which always adds a layer of excitement, as we could so easily get caught. Adding thrills like this are part of the effort we put in to keep the spark alive.
