My new fiancée doesn’t want sex — but she slept with her ex every single day
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Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger. This week we hear from 23-year-old Thea* who had been in a relationship with a man for five years before realising that she was lesbian. ‘I came out to him as bisexual,’ she says. ‘We came to an agreement that I could hook up with women to explore that part of my sexuality.
‘But after the first time I had sex with a woman, I knew I was a lesbian and broke up with him as soon as I got home the next morning.’. She met Ash*, her current partner, nearly four years ago. The pair ‘hit it off’ immediately, skipping the friend zone and falling in love.
‘I said “I love you” after three weeks of knowing each other,’ Thea explains. ‘She asked me to marry her two months ago while we were on vacation in San Diego. She’s the love of my life, and there was never a doubt in my mind that she would be my wife.’.
There’s only one issue in the couple’s relationship: Thea feels they aren’t having enough sex. ‘When we first met, we had sex daily,’ she says. ‘Ash had only been out for six months. I was the second woman she had ever dated, so having sex with women was still novel to her.
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