Eleanor says: Two things we know: appearances shouldn’t matter; your hair cut or colour is not an indication of talent and it’s downright illegal to treat your hearing aid as one.
Every aesthetic choice tells people how to read us, even the choice to avoid aesthetic choices.
My short hair also reveals another aspect about me: I wear hearing aids.
If folks can easily see my hearing aids, it means I don’t have to “out” myself to every new person I meet.
When I was previously job hunting I had longer hair and better hearing.