Lily Allen felt 'triggered' by thoughts of husband David Harbour being in New York with another woman after 'soul-destroying' decision to sell her Cotswolds dream home
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Lily Allen has checked into a £8,000-a-week trauma treatment centre in the wake of her split after feeling 'triggered' by thoughts of her husband David Harbour being in New York with another woman. The singer, 39, called time on her relationship with the Stranger Things star in December after discovering he was using the celebrity dating app Raya.
![[The singer, 39, called time on her relationship with the Stranger Things star in December after discovering he was using the celebrity dating app Raya]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/14/09/94069173-14281847-image-a-7_1736847035089.jpg)
And it has now been revealed she is struggling with being in city she called home with the star amid the split. A source told The Mail on Sunday that Lily's mental health deteriorated significantly after she returned from holiday to her marital home in New York last week.
![[However Lily had previously given up her dream home in the Cotwolds before she moved to New York in a decision she later described as 'soul-destroying']](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/14/09/94069413-14281847-image-a-16_1736847314255.jpg)
They explained: 'It was very painful for Lily to return home. David used to be her saviour and now he's a trigger for her. 'Lily settled her kids back into the family home and took them to school for their new term, then flew herself straight to rehab. She went a day earlier than intended as she felt wobbly and desperate to escape.'.
![[A source told the Mail On Sunday: ' It was very painful for Lily to return home. David used to be her saviour and now he's a trigger for her' (pictured together in 2022)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/14/09/94033865-14281847-The_Mail_on_Sunday_revealed_that_the_singer_s_mental_health_dete-a-17_1736847870315.jpg)
Lily Allen felt 'triggered' by thoughts of husband David Harbour being in New York with another woman after previously admitting to 'soul-destroying' decision to sell her Cotswolds home. The singer, 39, called time on her relationship with the Stranger Things star in December after discovering he was using the celebrity dating app Raya.
![[The English singer-songwriter chose to relocate to Brooklyn with her children Ethel, 11, and Marnie, 13, after she tied the knot with David in Las Vegas in 2020 (their house pictured)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/14/09/94069051-14281847-The_English_singer_songwriter_chose_to_relocate_to_Brooklyn_with-a-18_1736848007889.jpg)
The English singer-songwriter chose to relocate to Brooklyn with her children Ethel, 11, and Marnie, 13, after she tied the knot with David in Las Vegas in 2020. However Lily had previously given up her dream home in the Cotwolds in a decision she later described as 'soul-destroying'.
![[A source told The Mail On Sunday: 'While David was strolling around New York smoking cigars and looking carefree, you can only imagine how Lily was feeling. Her heartbreak was made worse by being near to him in Brooklyn' (pictured in December 2023)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/14/09/94069727-14281847-image-a-20_1736848290366.jpg)
