“Truthfully, I don’t think I ever lost hope, my hope just shifted, and when my babies would die, I would think, ‘I hope to see them again, I hope to leave a legacy for them’.”.
Although she understands that there are differing opinions when it comes to pregnancy and loss, Carmen hopes her story helps others and creates a “ripple effect” of conversation and hope.
This led Carmen to compile the letters she had written to each baby, and she released her first book, A Diary for My Babies: Journeying through Pregnancy Loss, in February 2023 to “honour” them.
Carmen Grover, a 33-year-old registered nurse from Ontario, navigated a devastating journey of pregnancy loss before welcoming her four surviving children.
Carmen Grover navigated a devastating journey of pregnancy loss before welcoming her four surviving children.