SAUCY SECRETS: My 'perfect' boyfriend did something so creepy around another woman that I can't think straight. Are all men like this?

Source: Mail Online

Published: Dec, 28 2024 13:15

Dear Jana,. I've been dating my girlfriend for several months, and things are going great. Recently, she asked me about my sexual history, specifically how many partners I've had. I refused to answer because I'm worried about how she might react to the number, but now she keeps pestering me about it.

Image Credit: Mail Online [Jana lets loose after a question from a woman whose boyfriend who can't stop ogling other women in front of her]

Is it important to disclose my 'body count,' and if so, how can I approach this conversation without causing tension or judgment?. I'm a reformed 'Peter Pan' (as you often refer to) so my number is a little higher than the average bloke. Anonymous. Dear Anonymous,.

This is spooky timing because I was just talking about this very topic with a friend the other day. We were having a chuckle whilst trying to list the guys we'd slept with. This week Jana helps a reformed 'Peter Pan' whose girlfriend keeps asking about his body count, and a woman who feels like she's being treated like sex doll.

You see, I did the opposite to you - I spent most of my twenties in relationships. So, as you can imagine, my number was very low. But when I got out of my last five-year relationship, well, let's just say that sense of freedom led me into all sorts of naughtiness.

Oh, a time was had! I basically became the girl version of Peter Pan, and you know what? I have zero regrets!. I learned a lot, discovered what I was (and wasn't) into, and, if I may toot my own horn, I'd say it made me the skilled lover I am today. So, here's the thing. I get how the term 'body count' can make you feel nervous and sweaty (it's such a gross term, by the way) but it's not something you should hide or feel ashamed of.

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