Over time, a coercively controlling partner erodes their confidence, making your friend feel like a burden for simply existing and conditioning them to believe they are always in the wrong.
This manipulation forces victims to present a false narrative, often portraying the abuser as a loving or respectable partner, which can make it even harder for them to seek support or be believed when they do speak out.
When someone is in a coercively controlled relationship, they may act as their partner's defence lawyer, justifying harmful behaviour.
If they were once financially independent but now seem restricted, unable to make financial decisions without their partner's approval, this is a serious red flag.
Therapist Caroline Strawson pinpoints the signs that could mean a partner is in trouble.
