Tulisa Contostavlos's friends are desperate for her to find a partner and put an end to her three years of celibacy
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Tulisa Contostavlos's friends have revealed they are desperate for her to find a partner and put an end to her three years of celibacy. The NDubz star, 38, came out as demisexual on I'm A Celebrity last month - an orientation based on emotional connection rather than physical attraction - and confessed she had been celibate for three years.
![[The NDubz star, 38, came out as demisexual on I'm A Celeb - an orientation based on emotional connection rather than physical attraction]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/19/15/93320093-14210591-image-m-49_1734622224884.jpg)
Reflecting on her revelation in the Jungle, Tulisa told The Guardian: 'Having the experiences I've had, has put me so far back into my shell. I only deal with people I already know. I've just recycled ex-boyfriends for the past 10 years. A new person coming in doesn't have a chance.
![[Her best friend confessed: 'She's been on her own for a while and it's definitely time she finds someone now']](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/19/15/93320063-14210591-image-a-50_1734622235808.jpg)
'I just ask myself: 'Would I keep this person in my life, even as a friend, for the rest of time?' And if I don't have that feeling, I wouldn't want them as a lover. 'I don't think it's going to leave me an isolated and alone individual for the rest of my life. What's meant for me won't pass me by.'.
![[Tulisa was previously in a relationship with Justin Edwards (R) who leaked their sex tape in 2010 causing the singer to seek legal action against her ex when the tape was released in 2012]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/19/15/91551775-14210591-The_singer_sought_legal_action_against_her_ex_after_the_sex_tape-m-54_1734622765339.jpg)
But her best friend Michelle McKenna appeared to be less than convinced by the former X-Factor judge's demisexual orientation and three-year celibacy streak. Tulisa Contostavlos's friends are desperate for her to find a partner and put an end to her three years of celibacy after she opened up about her sexuality on I'm A Celeb (pictured with best friend Michelle McKenna).
![[At the heigh of N-Dubz fame, Tulisa was in a long-term relationship with her bandmate Fazer, however the pair split in February 2012 after 18 months together (pictured in 2010)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/19/15/92278927-14210591-At_the_heigh_of_N_Dubz_fame_Tulisa_was_in_a_long_term_relationsh-a-56_1734622774350.jpg)
The NDubz star, 38, came out as demisexual on I'm A Celeb - an orientation based on emotional connection rather than physical attraction. Michelle, who is in a relationship with Tulisa's friend Daniel Johnson, previously told MailOnline: 'She needs somebody in her life, that needs to be over real soon, she needs to meet a very nice gentleman.
![[She later became embroiled in a 'homewrecker' scandal in which it was alleged she started dating the former Bristol City footballer Danny Simpson (pictured)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/19/15/93321483-14210591-image-a-58_1734623756657.jpg)
