Yes, older women dating younger men is all the rage. But what my friend did to a man 15 years her junior was so shocking I'll never speak to her again: JANA HOCKING

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Yes, older women dating younger men is all the rage. But what my friend did to a man 15 years her junior was so shocking I'll never speak to her again: JANA HOCKING
Published: Jan, 05 2025 13:57

Unless you've been living under a rock, I think we can all agree that MILFs are having a moment right now. Not since Stifler's mum made us realise she's 'got it going on' has the idea of older women locking lips with younger men been so on trend. From Nicole Kidman dry-humping Zac Efron in A Family Affair and asking her younger intern to be her 'dom' in Babygirl, to Anne Hathaway going full cougar in The Idea of You, the trope of older women romancing younger men is undeniably in vogue.

 [Jana Hocking shares a cautionary tale about the age-gap romances - and warns they can go horribly wrong]
Image Credit: Mail Online [Jana Hocking shares a cautionary tale about the age-gap romances - and warns they can go horribly wrong]

Women everywhere are lowering the age filters on their dating apps and diving headfirst into mischief with baby-faced studs. But let's get real for a moment - this phase? Not for me. Nope. Never. If I'm being completely honest, it's always given me the ick.

 [When Aaron Taylor-Johnson and Sam Taylor-Johnson met, he was a fresh-faced 18-year-old starring in Nowhere Boy, and she was the 42-year-old director calling the shots]
Image Credit: Mail Online [When Aaron Taylor-Johnson and Sam Taylor-Johnson met, he was a fresh-faced 18-year-old starring in Nowhere Boy, and she was the 42-year-old director calling the shots]

Dating men in their 20s when I was in my 20s was already enough of a lesson. Spoiler alert: they're adorably clueless. No offense, but they're fumbling through life, still figuring out laundry, surviving on Lynx Africa, and saving pennies for Bali 'lads trips'. As they should be.

If he can't grow a full beard, he's too young for you, Mum. From Nicole Kidman dry-humping Zac Efron in A Family Affair to asking her younger intern to be her 'dom' in Babygirl (pictured), the trope of older women romancing younger men is undeniably in vogue.

Yet, I get it, this trend does seem glamorous, particularly for women reclaiming their youth (usually post-divorce). But is it worth it?. I've seen the other side of these affairs - the young men giving up their wild 'lads, lads, lads' years, shackled by commitments they weren't ready for, and the older women hoping these lads can play the part of mature partners. It seems disturbingly unfair.

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