Apparently, child-free weddings are ‘trash’ — but parents must follow these rules

Along with the venue and colour schemes, all brides and grooms-to-be have to make a choice: will children be invited to the wedding?. Claire Kendall Taetz, 25, decided to include children in her big day — but she may have ended up regretting it. In a clip posted to TikTok by the bride herself, a young guest can be heard crying throughout Claire’s ceremony.

No attempt was made to remove the little one to allow the nuptials to continue in peace, earning a side-eye from the bride. The short video sparked a reaction on social media and X user, @IMadeLaws, had quite the hot take. ‘Adults-only weddings are trash,’ he wrote. ‘The point of a wedding is to bring families together. Families include children.

‘If you want your wedding to be a sterile environment, you don’t want a wedding: You want a production.’. His comments clearly touched a nerve, with the post viewed 2.4 million times. Many online agreed with the now-viral post, and @IMadeLaws went onto say that opting for this kind of wedding ‘screams “I’m a self-centered asshole”.’.

Mind you, this went on for 10 minutes and said guest refused people offering to take child out for him. Mother of bride whipped around and motioned to “take her out 🫵🏻🙅🏽‍♀️🤬.” #wedding #weddingtiktok #fail #tantrum. X user @Veronica_Turbay wrote: ‘A wedding without kids feels like it’s missing soul. I grew up with weddings where the dance floor was full of little cousins spinning around, abuelas [grandmothers] clapping, and the party lasting until we passed out in a pile of jackets. Weddings should feel like home, not a corporate gala.’.

Another agreed writing: ‘Children are the life of the party. The bride wants all the attention for herself.’. But child-free weddings have been been growing in popularity, with a recent report finding that 79.5% of couples with wedding dates last year in favour of an adults-only celebration.

‘Last thing my kids wanna do is go to a wedding,’ @BigFitz75 wrote on X.’Last thing guests at a wedding wanna deal with is other peoples kids. Grow up.’. Ultimately, of course, it’s the nearlyweds’ decision who they include on their guest list, and Liza Baucher from luxury bridal boutique, The Wedding Shop, tells Metro there’s no one-size fits all.

‘Both child-friendly and adult-only celebrations can be perfectly valid depending on the couple’s preferences,’ Liza tells Metro. ‘If a couple is hosting a very formal, late-night black-tie reception in an upscale venue, then an adult-only event can sometimes make for a smoother evening.

a year since the biggest task, making sure my baby didn’t ruin a wedding 😆🤣🤣 he cried just before the ceremony was about to start and i thought nope, we’re out of here 🤣🤣 #baby #wedding #toddler #babiesatweddings #funnytoddler #singlemum #motherhood.

‘On the other hand, weddings are family-centric celebrations, and including children can add a beautiful, joyful energy. Watching little ones dancing or sharing in the family moments can be incredibly heartwarming.’. However, Lisa warns that if your own darling little ones have been invited to a wedding, there is etiquette to be followed.

Firstly, be punctual. ‘Parents should arrive early so children can settle in and not disrupt the processional,’ Liza says. ‘The ceremony is sacred. If a child starts screaming or crying, step away, find a quiet spot, and calm them down. ‘The couple will appreciate the courtesy. You can always return once your child has settled down.’.

Lisa adds that venues sometimes have strict rules about where children can run around or explore, so be mindful of their whereabouts. Next up, she says parents should bring a ‘wedding kit’ to keep kids entertained. ‘This can include small (quiet) toys, colouring books, or snacks to keep them occupied during slower parts of the day – like the ceremony or speeches,’ Liza adds.

‘Having a few distractions on hand can make all the difference if the child starts getting antsy or bored.’. Lastly it’s crucial to dress your children appropriately for the formality of the event. ‘If the wedding is formal, try to find an outfit that fits the dress code but is also comfortable for your child,’ she says.

‘Uncomfortable clothing or scratchy fabrics can make children more likely to squirm, fuss, or become impatient. ‘Striking the balance between stylish and practical helps ensure everyone has a positive experience.’. Do you have a story to share?. Get in touch by emailing MetroLifestyleTeam@Metro.co.uk.

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