My sister’s husband murdered her moments before exchanging Valentine’s gifts… she held their baby as he killed her

My sister’s husband murdered her moments before exchanging Valentine’s gifts… she held their baby as he killed her
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My sister’s husband murdered her moments before exchanging Valentine’s gifts… she held their baby as he killed her
Author: Martha Cliff
Published: Feb, 10 2025 09:46

FOR most, Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and affection. But for grief-stricken Kayla Coleman, 21, from Dallas, Texas, it’s a time of heartbreak, and agony. Kayla’s big sister, Raesha Allison, then 29, was senselessly murdered on Valentine’s Day by her own husband. The couple, who’d been married for two years, were moments away from exchanging romantic gifts when they got into an argument.

 [Photo of Raesha Nelson-Allison.]
Image Credit: The Sun [Photo of Raesha Nelson-Allison.]

Whilst the mum held their newborn daughter in her arms, Roger Allison, 31, shot her eight times, killing her. Her five-year-old son was on the sofa next to them, but by miracle, both children survived. Kayla, a university student, says: “Valentine's Day was meant to be a day filled with love. Instead, it had ended in gunshots and bloodshed. “My sister had her whole life ahead of her. She was the best mother, daughter and sister anyone could ask for. I miss her every day.”.

 [A woman and her two sons on a porch.]
Image Credit: The Sun [A woman and her two sons on a porch.]

In 2011, Raesha was 20 years old when she got her first job at a burger joint. There, she met Allison, then 21, who works on the till with her. They were initially friends and Raesha met someone else and had two sons, Marcus, 10, and Aaron, 6. Kayla says: “It didn’t work out with their fathers but Raesha was an amazing mother. And I adored my little nephews. “Raesha and the kids lived with me and our parents.

 [Mugshot of Rogers.]
Image Credit: The Sun [Mugshot of Rogers.]

“Although she was 12 years older than me, we barely noticed an age gap. We were attached to the hip.”. But in 2016, Raesha announced to the family that she’d fallen in love with Allison and they became inseparable. She says: “When we all met him he muttered his words, and didn’t say much. As Raesha’s new boyfriend, we expected him to make an effort. “Instead, he had no interest in speaking to us. But, seeing Raesha happy was all we cared about.

 [Photo of Raesha Nelson Allison and Roger Allison.]
Image Credit: The Sun [Photo of Raesha Nelson Allison and Roger Allison.]

“He moved in, and he became a step-dad to Marcus and Aaron. They loved him. But no matter how hard I tried, I didn’t get anywhere with him. “I’d ask how things were and he’d cut off our conversation. It was frustrating. “Mum, Dad and I all agreed we didn’t like Roger.”. One night in 2018, after they’d been together for two years, the family were staying at a hotel while their house was being renovated.

 [A woman hugging her young son and daughter.]
Image Credit: The Sun [A woman hugging her young son and daughter.]

Kayla says: “Raesha, Roger, Marcus and Aaron were in one room. And I stayed in an adjacent room with Mum and Dad. “Suddenly, we heard Raesha crying and things were being thrown around. “Dad ran out and saw police officers arresting Roger. He’d hit Raesha. I was horrified. “Although I didn’t like Roger, I had no idea he was capable of violence.”. Soon after, Raesha and Allison broke up. The family were relieved but say Raesha was in denial about the domestic violence.

 [Three generations of women posing together.]
Image Credit: The Sun [Three generations of women posing together.]

Kayla says: “She swept it all under the rug. “I urged her not to get back with him but months later the investigation was dropped and Raesha forgave Roger. “We were worried sick after that.”. The following year, in 2019, Raesha and Allison moved into their own home and got married. I sobbed uncontrollably, unable to understand how Roger could take her away from us. The next year, in 2020, they had a daughter, Brooklyn, 4.

With a new baby and house, the couple were faced with further stress and Raesha confided to her family about their financial problems daily. Kayla says: “Raesha moaned every day that Roger couldn’t hold down a job. “Soon, I even helped Roger get a food certificate for a job at a convenience store. “But within five months he was fired from that too.”. In February 2021, Raesha came over to confide in her family again.

Kayla says: “She was in tears again saying she couldn’t do it anymore and that Roger wasn’t helping. “She was going to have to get another job. “Mum told her to come back home. Raesha was sobbing. I felt so sad seeing her upset, I hugged her tight. “She worked so hard and she deserved more. Then Raesha announced ‘I’ve been considering leaving Roger.’. “Inside, I hoped she would. She kissed us goodbye and left.”.

The following day  was Valentine’s Day and Kayla had been at work all day. She says: “When I got home that evening, Mum, Dad, Marcus and I watched TV. “Raesha was at home with Roger, Aaron and Brooklyn. Suddenly, the phone rang and Mum answered. “She said it was the police and they had the kids at the police station. We rushed there as quick as we could. “When we arrived, we were led into a room labelled ‘Homocide’ then, I spotted a detective holding Brooklyn.

“She was covered in blood. And Aaron had some on him too. “Aaron mumbled the words ‘Roger shot her. She’s dead.’. “Unable to breathe, I collapsed to the floor and mum screamed at the top of her lungs.”. The family discovered earlier that day, before exchanging Valentine’s Day gifts, Allison and Raesha had got into a fight. Raesha was stressed about money and wanted to leave him. While she was holding Brooklyn in her arms, Allison shot her from behind, eight times.

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