Eight 'magic' questions that reveal a man's soul: Think you've met Mr Right? Our certified dating guru shows how to unearth his true character - and whether he'll being you happiness or heartbreak
Eight 'magic' questions that reveal a man's soul: Think you've met Mr Right? Our certified dating guru shows how to unearth his true character - and whether he'll being you happiness or heartbreak
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A master matchmaker has revealed the crucial questions every woman should ask to determine if the new man in her life is 'the one'. Louanne Ward, a certified relationship expert with two decades' experience, says that while many don't feel it's necessary to 'dive deep' at the start of a romantic connection, she believes that asking the right questions early on can save a lot of heartache down the track.
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Louanne also has a second series of questions a woman should ask as soon as a relationship becomes exclusive, which will help to determine compatibility across seven key areas of life. In part one of FEMAIL's series, Louanne spills the 'golden' questions to ask in the early days that will offer immediate insight into whether he's the right match. These questions apply to all relationships regardless of age, meaning they are just as relevant to a woman in her twenties as they are to a woman over 50.
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Part 1: The early phases of dating. The goal in the first three months is to ask questions that lead to spontaneous, honest answers, where they aren't just telling you what they think you want to hear, and it doesn't sound like an interrogation. These questions are designed to help you get to the heart of what matters most to you in a relationship, without putting the other person on the spot. They encourage genuine replies that reveal whether the basic framework for a lasting relationship is there.
Whether it's aligning values, understanding lifestyle priorities, or gauging readiness for commitment, these questions will help you quickly determine if this person has the potential to be the right match for you, saving you from investing time in a relationship that's ultimately a dead end.
