My wife asked me an 'innocent' question about our sex life. Now I fear I'm a cuckold without realising it - and all my friends are telling me to leave
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Dear Jana,. My wife and I have been married for eight years, and while we're happy, things in the bedroom have become a bit routine. Recently, during a night out with friends, the topic of 'hall passes' came up. You know, the idea of each partner getting one guilt-free fling.
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I laughed it off at the time, but later, my wife brought it up again. She said it could be a way to bring some excitement back and mentioned a little too casually that she already had someone in mind, her personal trainer. She insists it's just a harmless crush and says I could pick someone to sleep with too, but I'm torn.
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I love her and don't want to mess up what we have, but I can't help feeling uneasy about her taking this idea so seriously. Is this really just about spicing things up, or am I walking into trouble? How do I handle this without it blowing up in my face?.
I mentioned it to my friends and they said she was only suggesting this because she has already cheated. I don't want to believe it. Anonymous. In this week's edition of Saucy Secrets, Jana Hocking helps a husband whose wife wants a 'hall pass' (stock image).
Dear Anonymous,. Spoiler alert: your partner has already slept with her trainer. Okay, sorry, that probably came off as a little blunt, but bro… that is no harmless suggestion. When someone suggests a hall pass and already has their 'candidate' lined up, that's not just a fun little fantasy, it's a big ol' red flag flapping in the wind.
