In this week's edition of Saucy Secrets, Jana helps a new dad who is worried about his wife's late-night partying and suspicious ATM withdrawals that suggest she is buying cocaine.
So when you talk to her, you need to first acknowledge something important: that you understand becoming a mother is a total identity earthquake; that you can see she is having a hard time processing how she went from a person with total autonomy - able to drink, dance and disappear whenever she pleased - to having to be someone whose body, time and sleep are no longer entirely her own.
Jana offers advice to a new dad who is worried about his wife's partying and suspicious ATM withdrawals.
It might be easier to believe she's just chasing fun, but you can have fun without staying up all night and spending $300 every weekend on, well, you know what.
She still wants to go to concerts, party with her friends, and sometimes even stays out all night, leaving me to do the night feeds alone.