After 20 years of married bliss, Rachael Meir and her husband Aaron found themselves welcoming a new addition to the family. Kasey, 33, joined their relationship to form a throuple, and five years on, it’s making all three of them profoundly happy. The trio consider themselves to be in a three-way marriage – although only Rachael and Aaron are legally married – doing everything regular couples do. They navigate their nine to fives and coming home to each other at the end of the day.
Image Credit: Metro [Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Left to right: Kasey, Rachel and Aaron at their engagement. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]
Rachael and Aaron, both 43, had initially explored ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago. ‘Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality,’ said Rachael. ‘Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.’. The couple, from Florida, said the transition wasn’t too difficult and they found it easy to added one more person to their lifestyle.
Image Credit: Metro [Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Left to right: Kasey, Rachel and Aaron at their engagement. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]
Rachael, a psychologist, said: ‘There are just three of us instead of two. ‘We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, travelling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it.’. In fact, the throuple believe it has some serious perks compared to the traditional couple dynamic. ‘One of the biggest advantages is that there’s always someone to engage with,’ Rachael added.
Image Credit: Metro [Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Rachel and Kasey at their ceremony. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]
‘If one partner isn’t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ‘We say it’s always a party, never a crowd. We prioritise intentional quality time. We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.’. Every ENM journey is unique, filled with its own milestones and revelations. Ours led us from curious exploration to deep fulfillment, and now to helping others navigate their own paths in ethical non-monogamy. 💖 There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to ENM—that’s why personalized guidance can make all the difference. 🙌 Curious about exploring ENM but not sure where to start? Or already on your journey but facing challenges? I’m here to help! 💌 Just send me a DM for a free 20-minute discovery call to see how I can support your unique journey! ethicalnonmonogamy nonmonogamy polyamory polytok enmcoach nonmonogamycoach relationshipcoach.
Image Credit: Metro [Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Left to right: Aaron, Rachael and Kasey. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]
Rachael and Aaron, an operations manager, met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was actually the first woman they decided to meet up with. When they met, Rachael explained that everything suddenly just felt right. ‘I remember the butterflies, the uncertainty, and yes, even the fear when Aaron and I first opened up our marriage,’ she said on TikTok.
‘For years, it felt like something was missing. Then Kasey came into our lives and everything clicked.’. But they admit that their newfound throuple didn’t initially go down too well with friends and family. ‘At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,’ Rachael explained. ‘We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions.’. Much in love, the throuple held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. Over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship.
She said: ‘Most of them have become incredibly supportive. Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.’. Though it works for them, the relationship has received some backlash online too, with some claiming Kasey is a gold-digger or that she will run away with one of them. Rachel added: ‘Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael’s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.
‘Some people also think Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed.’. Others online say their throuple won’t last and even brand their relationship as ‘morally and religiously wrong’. Finding your perfect match in ENM isn’t just about attraction—it’s about discovering people who align with your values, support your growth, and make your heart dance. 💫 I remember the butterflies, the uncertainty, and yes, even the fear when Aaron and I first opened our marriage. For years, something felt missing. Then Kasey came into our lives, and everything clicked. But this harmony didn’t happen by chance—it took intention, understanding, and the right tools. The DEFY™️ Method breaks down the exact steps that helped me navigate my own ENM journey. Through this comprehensive eCourse, you’ll develop the confidence to explore authentic connections while nurturing the relationships you cherish. 💕✨ Ready to transform your ENM journey from uncertainty to unshakeable love? Sign up and learn more about the course today! Link in bio. ethicalnonmonogamy consensualnonmonogamy nonmonogamy enm cnm polyamory polyamorous polylife openmarriage openrelationships swinging enmcoach relationshipcoach lovewithoutlimits relationshipdiversity modernlove.
![[Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Left to right: Kasey, Rachel and Aaron at their engagement. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/SEI_239866762-b9d7.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
![[Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Left to right: Kasey, Rachel and Aaron at their engagement. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/SEI_239866462-b5eb.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
![[Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Rachel and Kasey at their ceremony. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/SEI_239866525-da60.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
![[Story from Jam Press (Throuple Life) Pictured: Left to right: Aaron, Rachael and Kasey. VIDEO: ?I was in a happy relationship for 20 years when we added a third partner ? people call her a gold-digger' A husband and wife who welcomed a third person into their relationship after 20 years say family members thought she was a ?gold-digger?. Rachael Meir, 43, had been married to her husband Aaron, also 43, for almost two decades when Kasey, 33, walked into their lives five years ago. Despite the haters and raised eyebrows, they held a triad commitment ceremony together in November 2023. And now the throuple consider themselves in a three-way marriage, doing everything regular couples do - sharing a bed, following a routine, working, going to concerts and travelling. Rachael and Aaron met Kasey via Bumble, and after chatting to a few people, Kasey, a customer training manager, was the first woman they decided to meet. But they admit that it didn?t initially go down too well with friends and family. ?At first there was a lot of shock and even fear,? Rachael, a psychologist from St. Petersburg, Florida, told What's The Jam. ?We were dropping a big change on them, and people naturally filled in the gaps with their own assumptions. ?Some common concerns we heard were: Rachael is actually a lesbian and will leave Aaron for Kasey, Kasey is a gold-digger or home-wrecker trying to take Aaron and Rachael?s money or break up their marriage, or Aaron is running off with the younger woman.? Rachael said they also get comments from people in public and online. She said: ?Some people assume Aaron must be wealthy or exceptionally well-endowed. ?Others see our relationship as morally or religiously wrong. ?Some mistakenly refer to Kasey and me as ?sister wives?. ?And many people predict it won?t last.? But over time, Rachael says their close circle saw their love deepen and began to come to terms with the relationship. She said: ?Most of them have become incredibly supportive. ?Education and open conversations helped break down misconceptions and now they encourage and celebrate our relationship. ?Our bond is just as meaningful and committed.? Rachael says she and Aaron, a compliance and operations manager, initially explored non-monogamy and opened up their marriage about 15 years ago through the swinging lifestyle. She said: ?Aaron and I were married and chose to open our relationship mostly because of my bisexuality. ?Over time, we transitioned from swinging to polyamory, and after intentionally searching for a triad dynamic, we found that connection with Kasey.? And Rachael says it?s being in a throuple is not too different from a monogamous relationship. She said: ?There are just three of us instead of two. ?We share a bed, follow a routine that includes going to the gym, working, walking the dog, cooking, doing dishes, watching shows, traveling, going out to eat, attending concerts, you name it. ?One of the biggest advantages is that there?s always someone to engage with. ?If one partner isn?t in the mood for something, it creates an opportunity for the other two to connect without pressure. ?We say it?s always a party, never a crowd. ?We prioritise intentional quality time. ?We rotate our schedule, plus we have a triad date weekly.? For the throuple, outside judgements don?t make a difference. Rachael added: ?Right now, we?re all on the same page and continue to build our life together as a committed triad. ?We emphasise differentiation of self - meaning we each communicate as individuals with our own identities while also working together to accommodate each other?s autonomy, freedom, and choices. ?And while some family members may not fully get it, they love us and ultimately just want us to be happy.? ENDS EDITOR?S NOTES: Video Usage Licence: (EXCLUSIVE) We have obtained an exclusive licence from the copyright holder. A copy of the licence is available on request. Video Restrictions: None.]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/SEI_239866941-de72.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
