BEL MOONEY: My 40-year-old son can't hold down a job, constantly asks me for money - and now he wants to get on BENEFITS.
I encouraged them both to join clubs and activities, cadets, judo, football etc, but my son never stuck at anything.
He has never shown any emotion, was always in trouble at school and couldn’t hold down a job.
He didn’t like my new husband but also didn’t get on with his adoptive dad and stole from him and his new wife.
He has since gone from one low-paid job to another, sacked for stealing at least twice.