I’m like Nicole Kidman in Babygirl. I HAVE had orgasms, just never with my husband….so I told him
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EMMA JONES has pretty much the perfect marriage to factory worker David. There’s just one problem – she has never had an orgasm with him. The couple, who tied the knot in 2013, live happily with their seven dogs, but no children. After six years, the 35-year-old dog handler from Sheffield finally told David, 40, the truth, and today she shares her story.
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AFTER the performance of my lifetime, I slipped out of bed and headed to the bathroom. I left my husband in post-coital bliss, falsely believing that he was a dynamo between the sheets. But the truth is, he wasn’t. While I enjoyed our sex life, he could never bring me over the finishing line.
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I had to sneak off to the bathroom afterwards, pretending to have a shower, and use a waterproof vibrator in secret. For years, this had been my routine — faking orgasms with my husband and then hiding away to use a sex toy. But I’d had enough. I needed to open up and tell him the truth.
When I heard of Hollywood movie Babygirl and actress Nicole Kidman’s character having the same issues, it made me feel more “normal”. It’s such a taboo subject, but one I think is important to raise awareness of. So many women struggle in silence, thinking they are broken when they are not.
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After six years, I finally plucked up the courage to talk to David. I cooked him a nice meal and asked him to sit down, telling him I had something to discuss. But when I opened my mouth, no words came out. I just couldn’t do it. I loved my husband dearly and I couldn’t break his heart.
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