Solaya says: When we met 18 years ago we were at it multiple times a day - now we are lucky if we have sex every four months or on special occasions.
MAKING LOVE, hanky panky or a good old fashioned bonk - whatever you call it, every couple’s attitude towards sex differs greatly.
After the birth of our first daughter, we waited six months before having sex again, as we tried to find our feet as new parents.
When our second daughter came along, we waited four months to have sex.
Thankfully, within three months of admitting there was a sex problem we were back on track.
