My boyfriend dates multiple women but I’m monogamous – people say I’m ‘dumb’ & he’s ‘toxic’, but we have 2 kids together
My boyfriend dates multiple women but I’m monogamous – people say I’m ‘dumb’ & he’s ‘toxic’, but we have 2 kids together
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A MUM-OF-TWO has revealed why she lets her partner sleep with other women despite being monogamous herself. Dazy and Chxpo have two children together, and despite having a family, Chxpo still goes out to meet new ladies. The pair candidly opened up about their relationship to Love Don't Judge, revealing they first met in a polyamorous relationship. Chxpo said: "When I first met Dezy, I had my wife and two girlfriends. She was a part of the polyamorous relationship, but we had our own thing.
"Everybody broke up with each other and we were just together. Then she got pregnant, and I didn't really have the time to entertain other women.". "People think it's weird that he dates other girls but I don't date other guys," said Dezy. While he does admit his extramarital affairs have taken a backseat since they had kids, he still hits women up on social media and keeps in touch with girls he has dated.
Dezy revealed that she found it hard knowing he was still speaking to other women. "It's really hard. I guess I just say I'm okay because he is my number one; he is my baby father," she explained. "I do have to deal with it I don't want to change him., but I do at the same time it.". The mother of his children also finds his polyamorous side difficult as he often doesn't tell her when he is seeing new women.
"I feel disrespected, sometimes I just find out and that to me I don't like because I feel like when you're in poly relationships you're supposed to tell your partner everything," she explained. Dezy also says she gets furious when women post him as their boyfriend online. " I never tricked her into thinking that things would change the way she wants them too," he revealed but added it was 'unfair' for her to find out before he could tell her.
Despite warnings that she is dating a 'red flag' Dezy says she still loves Chxpo and won't throw their relationship away. The clip posted on YouTube soon went viral and people had plenty to say about the relationship. One person wrote: "This isn’t poly - she’s just letting him cheat.". Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple. Another commented: "It's better to be single than waste your time being with a cheating partner that you know you cannot trust.". "She had kids with him... she brought kids into this situation... she dislikes her situation and lives in denial, and she brought two new lives into the situation." penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: "I feel like this isn't even being polyamorous anymore he's just putting that label on himself so he can sleep around with multiple women.". "If she's dumb enough to deal with that then she has no self-respect,” claimed a fifth. Someone else added: “Stop making people your number 1 who consider you just another number. That’s not poly, just toxic.". Fabulous will pay for your exclusive stories. Just email: fabulousdigital@the-sun.co.uk and pop EXCLUSIVE in the subject line.