AFTER a painful break up, one woman didn't think her day could get any worse. However, when she sought her mum out for comfort she couldn't believe what she found. In her post, the unnamed Reddit user recounted the events that led up to the end of her relationship. The 26-year-old explained that she had been dating her boyfriend, 30, for seven months. She decided to take him along on a family reunion to introduce him to everyone.

According to the original poster, her boyfriend had met her 47-year-old mother once before. She explained that they had attended a dinner with her younger brother and sister. The Reddit user added that her parents had divorced "several years ago" and that her mum was now with her partner of almost two years. She revealed that her mother is "fit and attractive" and is only 21 years older than her. "[My] mother and I have some boundaries already about dating," she wrote.

"I like guys older than me and she likes guys younger than her.". While the dinner went smoothly, the poster described how her boyfriend had "been distant" during the reunion trip. "He found literally anything else to do than have a connection with me all weekend," she recalled. "Before the big meal on Saturday, he told me he didn't find me very attractive. According to her, he told her that she was "too tall" and "not fit enough.".

"We had a talk and it turned into an argument and [he] stormed out," she explained. "I cried a lot and finally composed myself to go talk with my mum like girls do in a break up.". Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating. They start to take their phone everywhere with them. In close relationships, it's normal to know each other's passwords and use each other's phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.

Aaron says: "If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.". "You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.". They start telling you less about their day.

When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you. "If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don't want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.". "Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it's an easy way to get caught out," says Aaron.

Their libido changes. Your partner's libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron. Aaron says: "Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating.  You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren't there before.".

They become negative towards you. Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify. "To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere.  Maybe you haven't walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime.  A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating," warns Aaron.

However, when the Redditor entered the RV her mum was staying in she couldn't believe her eyes. "I see them both sprawled out on the bed, breathing heavy and freshly orgasmed," she said. She recalled how she "said nothing" and "just walked over and slapped my mother across the face and walked back out.". Looking back, the poster tried to member if there was ever "weird vibes or stolen glances" between the pair.

She joked that she didn't expect "this kind of congregation" at her family gathering. Reddit users shared their thoughts on the situation in the comments section. "I would do her boyfriend and then cut her off," suggested one reader. "Tell everyone! Name and shame. Good riddance," wrote another commenter. "Your mom and boyfriend are pieces of s**t. You’re better off walking away from both of them," pointed out a third person.