My boyfriend messages other women online because he isn't attracted to me. How do I forgive him?
My boyfriend messages other women online because he isn't attracted to me. How do I forgive him?
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A devastated woman has taken to the internet to share her heartbreak after discovering her boyfriend of three years had been engaging in flirtatious online chats with other women - and then cruelly admitted he isn't physically attracted to her. The 32-year-old woman explained the shocking moment she found messages between her partner and other women while using her iPad, which he often borrows.
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'When I went to use my iPad again, it opened to a Facebook conversation with him and another woman. He was basically praising her looks,' she revealed on Reddit. As she dug deeper, she discovered he was engaging in similar chats with multiple women, leaving her 'heartbroken'.
'When he got home, I asked him about it. We usually reach a solution easily when there's conflict and that's something we both love about our dynamic. 'However, this tripped him out. I guess it could be the shock of "being caught", but he screamed that he likes what he sees and he isn't physically attracted to me,' she wrote.
For the woman, who is recovering from an eating disorder, the admission was a crushing blow. 'As a person who has always struggled with my body and loving it, that statement hurt,' she admitted. The 32-year-old woman explained the shocking moment she found messages between her partner and other women while using her iPad [mock up message].
