'My long-term boyfriend fancied my gay best friend – so now we're a throuple'
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Relationships can be hard work, but they are so rewarding when things go right. It can be even harder to make things go smoothly when there are three of you in the relationship - but somehow, James, Sarah, and Hunter manage to make it work. But it was a rollercoaster ride to get to where they are now.
"My friend turned my boyfriend bi," Sarah admitted at the start of an episode of 'Love Don't Judge' on YouTube. Sarah shared that she and James have "been together since high school," and James had never been with a man before he caught feelings for Sarah's best friend, who is gay, Hunter.
Hunter admitted that he cared for Sarah "a little bit more than a friend" but said: "At the same time, I knew I was gay - so I was a little confused". Sarah and James both said they were "bisexual" – but Hunter shared he was "biromantic". So how did they all meet? Well, they met Hunter when they were looking for somewhere to live, and they just got close from there.
Before Sarah and James met Hunter, they'd never considered adding a third person to their relationship because Sarah described herself as "a jealous person". It had never crossed her mind "in the slightest" – and even Hunter said that he "prefers monogamy".
Despite this, Hunter is now in a relationship with both of them. It may be unconventional, but the trio say they couldn't be happier. Sarah said her feelings "never diminished" when she noticed a connection with Hunter. They've also managed to come up with a system when it comes to intimacy.
