Our four dogs sleep on the bed – so I haven’t had sex with my wife in 10 years My partner doesn’t seem to care about our sex life or my needs as her husband.
You need to listen to these things calmly then repeat them back to her: “OK, I heard you say that …” Hopefully this method will give you enough mutual understanding to move forward, but, if you reach an impasse, insist on joint therapeutic help.
We have four dogs and she has them sleep in the bed; I told her I can’t sleep with the dogs and she didn’t do anything about it.
I’m sorry, but I cannot tolerate being replaced in your bed by our dogs … I need you to change this now.” Undoubtedly, there will be reasons and excuses.
However, I am extremely unhappy that we are neither sleeping in the same bed or making love … and I need that to change.
