Why boys who cry make the BEST lovers, according to a sexpert, and the other secretly amazing signs to look out for
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WHILE the clichés might tell you a 'proper man' should act the tough guy and never cry, one expert has revealed why they may not make the best lovers. On last night’s episode of Love Island All Stars, viewers saw a different side to the blokes when Luca Bish broke down in tears after bombshell Tina Stinnes decided to couple up with Scott Thomas.
![[Luca Bish from Love Island crying, comforted by Ekin-Su, Curtis Pritchard, and Nas Majeed.]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/2cbbb1b4-4632-4e05-8a8a-b57d4bdafdac.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
And fans of the show were quick to praise him for showing his emotional side. Taking to X, formerly known as Twitter, one fan raved: “Luca went from being a d**k to Tash for crying to become an intelligent self-aware man who is in touch with his emotions… in two years.”.
![[Luca Bish crying and being comforted by fellow islanders.]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/6997df81-f3a1-4aa3-b291-d85221181ae5.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
Another added: “Seeing Luca cry was deep. Didn’t ever think I’d be this sad for the guy.”. And according to love and relationship expert Marina Lazaris, author of Men Need Love Too, “men who cry are the best lovers.”. She believes that there are subtle signs women should look for, to find a “Catch of a Lifetime, rather than just a day.”.
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She said: "The fine line between vulnerability and masculinity is the biggest challenge for men in today's society. “Luca’s tears are gorgeous. Scenes of women comforting men with tenderness, such as kissing away their tears, have the potential to redefine intimacy on screen.
![[Luca Bish crying on Love Island.]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/9bf67d58-3dc6-47d7-9412-64dc565b40bb.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
“They challenge outdated notions of masculinity and celebrate vulnerability as internal strength to create deeper intimacy. “Chasing the myth of needing a man with high status isn’t all bad. "You might be lucky enough to end up with a man in a shiny new suit that’s a little tight around the biceps and a car that wakes the neighbours.”.
![[A young couple lovingly looking at each other.]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/romantic-young-couple-looking-loving-965519974.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
