Years ago my father had a cine camera and filmed my family and my brother's family as our children grew – in lots of happy times.
I would never have eradicated my brother's family from those films – and so, psychologically and emotionally, it seems very significant and disturbing.
My brother took ownership of these films and I have just discovered he has had them turned into DVDs, editing out my son and me, leaving us on the cutting room floor.
BEL MOONEY REPLIES: Family mementos can be so important – but are also a frequent cause of dissent (and worse) among siblings.My 'dress for the day' message proved a hit.
Now my brother has edited the films - and I've made a truly shocking discovery... Dear Bel,.
