I found out my husband has a 'work wife' he didn't tell me about. Now, she's done something that made my skin crawl and friends are telling me it's over: SAUCY SECRETS
I found out my husband has a 'work wife' he didn't tell me about. Now, she's done something that made my skin crawl and friends are telling me it's over: SAUCY SECRETS
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Dear Jana,. I've never been the jealous type and have always tried to give my partners their privacy when it comes to phones and stuff, but last week I went to my husband's work drinks and got a weird vibe from one of his female co-workers. She was overly touchy-feely with him and spoke to him as if they were really tight, but he's rarely mentioned her to me. So I did something I swore I would never do: I went through his phone.
![[Jana says a work wife usually isn't something to worry about, but says flirty texts outside of the workplace are a step too far]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/25/15/94460455-14319593-Jana_says_a_work_wife_usually_isn_t_something_to_worry_about_but-a-4_1737818606768.jpg)
Of course I found a suspicious text from her. It wasn't outright cheating, but it was flirty enough to set off alarm bells. When I confronted him, he said it was 'just banter' and nothing to worry about. The problem is, now I can't shake the feeling there might be more going on. He has been oddly protective of his phone lately, and has started working late more often.
![[Jana says the trick to reigniting a man's sex drive after he's settled into a routine is to send spicy texts or reminisce about steamy encounters from your past together]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/25/15/94460521-14319593-Jana_says_the_trick_to_reigniting_a_man_s_sex_drive_after_he_s_s-a-6_1737818607556.jpg)
I don't want to turn into the crazy, paranoid wife, but my gut is telling me something's not right. My friends all say he's having an affair, but I'm torn. How do I find out if he's really cheating without pushing him away, or making myself look like I don't trust him?.
![[A young woman is concerned her new boyfriend may be asexual and fears what this means for her future (stock image posed by models)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/25/15/94460595-14319593-A_young_woman_is_concerned_her_new_boyfriend_may_be_asexual_and_-a-5_1737818607485.jpg)
Anonymous. Mail+ columnist Jana Hocking offers some words of wisdom to a woman who was alarmed to learn her husband had a work wife whom he'd conveniently forgotten to mention (stock photo). Dear Anonymous,. I'm going to say something that might ruffle a few feathers, but it's true: everyone needs a flirt buddy at work. The hours are long, and the work can be tedious... so why shouldn't we enjoy the occasional harmless ego-stroke in the break room?.
