I learned the hard way never to give sex as a present
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Rummaging through my closet, I desperately search for the only G-string I own. It’s past midnight and I should be in bed relaxing. Instead, I’ve been sexting my lover who works nights and has just informed me he is coming over once his shift is done.
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As if that wasn’t enough excitement for one evening, he’s also asked me to wear a thong for the occasion. While there are women out there who like this design, I am certainly not one of them. I’ve hated it ever since I first tried it as a teenager.
![[Almara Abgarian photographed at home in Clapham by Rachel Adams]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/SEI_189191283-1364.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
However, I am a woman who likes to please her sexual partner. And that’s how I find myself in this situation, squeezing into a lacey number, feeling as though I’m flossing my own bum cheeks. This is one of many times where I’ve dressed up for a date or boyfriend, presenting myself as a present to be unwrapped for their enjoyment.
![[Almara Abgarian photographed at home in Clapham by Rachel Adams]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/SEI_189191389-7ccd.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
Sexual gift-giving can be great fun. Annual events like Christmas or anniversaries are prime occasions for spicing up your sex life – whether that’s by wearing an elaborate outfit, trying out a new position or introducing adult toys. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom?.
![[Almara Abgarian photographed at home in Clapham by Rachel Adams]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/SEI_189191343-4f2f.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
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![[Almara Abgarian photographed at home in Clapham by Rachel Adams]](https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/SEI_189191344-f1ad.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=646)
