I was caught cheating on wife after she paid honeytrapper £1k to snare me – it left ME feeling betrayed & ruined my life
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DRUNK on a lads weekend away, Ben* was surprised when a gorgeous girl approached him on the dance floor. The stranger was exactly his type physically, and appeared to have many of the same interests. Flattered and egged on by his mates, he started chatting her up.
![[Ben wrecked his marriage after being stung by a honeytrap at a music festival]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/happy-young-couple-fun-music-958130690.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
They laughed and danced together, and towards the end of the night they shared a kiss. But Ben, in his thirties, had been happily married for six years - or so he thought. He had fallen prey to the shocking new TikTok honeytrap trend of ensnaring men to test their loyalty.
![[He says he initially felt betrayed but only has himself to blame]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/young-couple-enjoying-music-festival-958130680.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
Suspicious women are paying professionals thousands of pounds to lure their partners into flirty conversation to see if they take the bait. And when Ben arrived home the following morning, nursing a crippling hangover, his furious wife confronted him with a video of him kissing the woman.
![[Group of people dancing on dance floor at nightclub]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/group-people-dancing-dance-floor-958127142.jpg?strip=all&w=960)
“I made a mistake," said Ben. “I kissed another woman, even though I was married. “My wife had spoken to a private investigator, and I was caught in the act.”. Fearing that he might cheat, Charlotte paid a honey trap £1,000 to test her husband’s loyalty - and he fell into her trap.
She had become suspicious when she discovered messages on her husband’s phone, in a group chat about whether there would be attractive girls at the Reading Festival which they were attending in the summer of 2022. “There was a bit of laddy banter beforehand,” recalled Ben.
