I went from a sexless marriage to 3,000 orgasms in a YEAR at 44 – I had foursomes & 11am quickies, here’s what I learned
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ORGASMS are the issue on everyone's lips, whether it's Nicole Kidman's saucy new film Baby Girl or the ever-present gap which means women still only climax during about half of their sexual encounters. After years without any sex, author Rebecca Ferguson decided to take things into her own hands - and went onto have a mind-blowing 3,000 orgasms in one year.
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Then aged 43, the Melbourne based sex and relationship coach achieved what some might find unbelievable - but it's all tracked on sex data app Nice. Here she tells Fabulous her incredible story... DATA, it’s something we rely on for everything from tracking our fitness progress to budgeting our finances.
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But for me, data took on an entirely new meaning — I used it to track my sex life. After enduring two sexless years at the end of my marriage, I was on a mission to reclaim my pleasure and redefine my connection to intimacy with my new partner. In 2019, three years after divorcing my husband, I met my current partner, who made me realise having more than one or two orgasms per session was a possibility.
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We are monogamish and have occasionally had threesomes with another woman or foursomes with another couple. As a self-proclaimed data nerd, I decided to approach my sex life the way others might approach a fitness regime: with measurable goals, thoughtful analysis, and a willingness to experiment.
