I’m the type of person who needs a special occasion to get me in the mood, such as a date, rather than just being in bed and saying, “let’s have sex”.
This is how we do it: ‘Dating other men makes me realise I have a place to come back to’ Josué and Sebastián agree that seeing other people doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
We agreed to give each other the freedom to meet other people – not to start a relationship, but to flirt with other guys and use apps to date if that’s what we feel like doing.
It’s not cheating or replacing one another, it’s accepting that we both have urges, that we might find other guys attractive.
We’ve been together for eight years, so of course he knows how to push my buttons and how my body will naturally respond to his touch.
