I could look past my boyfriend James being a hopeless lover who needed Viagra. Then I received an email exposing who he REALLY was. Suddenly, it all made sense...
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One night, out of the blue, I received an email with no subject line. Like any email with no subject line, of course I opened it immediately. It turned my world upside down. 'You're a disgrace of a human being. Tell me why you've been sleeping with my husband,' read the first line.
![[His wife found my contact details in his phone and sent me an email. The world swirled around me and my head felt dizzy with confusion (stock image posed by model)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2025/01/06/04/93773345-14252985-image-a-34_1736136697470.jpg)
'I'm James' wife and the mother of his seven children. We've been married for ten years and I can't believe you would do this to me.'. Let me be clear from the outset - I'm no mistress, and never imagined being the 'other woman'. But nor did I expect that James*, the man I considered by boyfriend, would turn out to be married with seven kids.
![[I could never have imagined the erotic joys of cuckolding until my darling husband confessed he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. Now I'm hooked on the 'hotwife lifestyle']](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/31/05/93575497-14212791-My_husband_and_I_are_happily_married_in_our_40s_and_have_three_c-a-19_1735621565509.jpg)
Before we go any further, let's start from the beginning. After my divorce in my late 40s, I jumped back into the dating game and soon realised the pool of available men was remarkably shallow. How do I put this? They tended to be boring, unkempt, revolting and thick as two planks. I can't imagine they're much better today.
![[The 'hotwife lifestyle' is a kind of open marriage where only the woman has outside sexual relationships while the husband stays faithful (picture posed by models)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/31/05/93601529-14212791-The_hotwife_lifestyle_is_a_kind_of_open_marriage_where_only_the_-a-17_1735621565256.jpg)
But then I met James - online, naturally. He was tall, handsome, funny, generous and kind. We went on a few dates and I had a great time. He made me laugh and the fact we had similar interests certainly helped. I dated a man for four months before finding out he was married and had seven children (stock image posed by models).
![[Giving me permission to have sex with other men doesn't mean my husband doesn't want me. If anything, I feel desired even more by him. When he reclaims me after I've been with another man, he's more passionate than ever (picture posed by models)]](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/12/31/05/93601527-14212791-Giving_me_permission_to_have_sex_with_other_men_doesn_t_mean_my_-a-21_1735621565712.jpg)
The only downside was the sex. I don't quite know how to say this without sounding like I'm being cruel to the man, but it was a huge letdown. To be completely honest, he was a hopeless lover. He just wasn't good in bed and needed to take Viagra to perform, which took the spontaneity out of our sex life.
