Like Tommy Fury, booze destroyed my relationship – I was argumentative & erratic, sinking two bottles of whisky a day
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A YOUNG woman has opened up about how alcohol ruined her relationship, just like Tommy Fury. Abi Feltham, 37, says her lowest ebb was leaving her ex-boyfriend's new home in New York, US - after three months of arguments, fuelled by booze. She says alcoholism turned her into an "argumentative, erratic" girlfriend, who only cared about where her next drink was coming from.
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In April 2020, Abi got sober after moving into her parents' house in Berkshire, during the covid lockdown - and has been alcohol-free ever since. Now, she's in a "harmonious, healthy" relationship with her new partner, personal trainer Stefan Winder, 31 - but admits she couldn't have done it if she wasn't sober.
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Abi, a content creator, from Richmond, London, said: "I know exactly how Tommy Fury feels - when you're drinking to a point you can't control it; to a point where, once you start, you can't stop. "Being an active alcoholic in a relationship is very difficult - being in a relationship with an alcoholic is impossible.
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"All my relationships were based around alcohol - it was carnage. "When you have a drinking problem, it causes unpredictability in your relationships - so they were all very rocky.". She says her alcohol addiction started with drinking cider as a teen, in parks with her friends, to cope with her father's death when she was three.
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