Men say they’d never date me over my list of relationship rules – splitting bills are laughable & I have ‘blue’ jobs
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WE all have our own relationship dealbreakers, but one TikToker has taken it to the next level by sharing her firm - and unapologetic - rules for how she approaches being a girlfriend. Known online as Bia Baby, she doesn’t hold back when it comes to outlining her expectations, and the internet can’t stop talking about it.
![[Bia Baby has revealed her strict rules when it comes to a relationship]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/47fbf97a-bec2-4660-8984-5d2d9d5d757c.jpg?strip=all&w=576)
From strict boundaries on financial contributions to her take on traditional gender roles, Bia’s video has racked up views and sparked conversations everywhere. In her video, Bia starts with: “Number one, and this is absolutely at the top - I don’t do 50-50.”.
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She continues: “Going 50-50 in a relationship? That’s not in my vocabulary. A man is a provider - so, provide, darling. “I don’t mind treating my man now and then, but splitting bills? No, thanks. If you’re into that, maybe go find someone else who is.”.
![[The internet has plenty to say about her list, as many rushed to the comments section to share her thoughts]](https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/1476cfc2-1d6b-463c-a864-3b6600a288a7.jpg?strip=all&w=576)
Her second rule? Bins are “blue jobs.”. “Taking out the trash is a man’s job,” she explains. “If you don’t know what blue and pink jobs are, here’s the breakdown: blue jobs are for men, pink jobs are for women. The bin? That’s blue. And trust me, it’ll sit there until you take it out.”.
Bia also admits she’s not one for faking friendships with her partner’s pals: “If I don’t like them, they’ll know. I’m not pretending for anyone’s sake.”. When it comes to finances, she has a firm stance: “No joint bank accounts. Ever. I’ll happily keep my money separate, thank you very much.
