My lesbian partner dumped me twice for the same man — I can’t get over her
My lesbian partner dumped me twice for the same man — I can’t get over her
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Getting your heartbroken is tough, but when the same person does it twice, it’s particularly hard to cope. In this week’s Sex Column, we hear from a reader who was left devastated after her long-term girlfriend broke up with her for a man. When the pair reconciled for a night of passion months later, she thought they were back on track – only to be rejected again, leaving her more shattered than before.
Read the advice below, but before you go, don’t forget to check out last week’s column from a man who was left feeling blindsided after discovering his friend with benefits was pregnant. I’m a gay female aged, 28, who has never been out with a guy – unlike my long-term ex-girlfriend, who is bisexual.
We were together for nearly three years before breaking up last summer when she got together with a guy on holiday, and decided our relationship had run its course. I was absolutely devastated and spent six months getting over the split. I couldn’t sleep or eat and certainly couldn’t think about another relationship.
Meanwhile, my ex was posting happy snaps of herself and this boyfriend having a great time together, which felt like an arrow through my heart. With thousands of members from all over the world, our vibrant LGBTQ+ WhatsApp channel is a hub for all the latest news and important issues that face the LGBTQ+ community.
Simply click on this link, select ‘Join Chat’ and you’re in! Don't forget to turn on notifications!. Then, out of the blue, a few weeks ago, I bumped into her at a party. We had a heart-to-heart, and she said she really missed me, and it just wasn’t the same with this guy.
